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Whether you're fighting about the same thing again, feeling more like roommates, opening up, starting over, or simply ready to go from fine to extraordinary — find a relationship pro who gets your kind of love.
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Tell us what you need
What you’re looking for, what’s in the way, and how you like to meet — in person, virtual / video sessions, intensive or retreat and group or workshop.
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We match on fit
Specialties, the people they work with, credentials and format. This is a directory and matching service — not medical advice.
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See why each relationship pro fits. Pick who may contact you — nothing is shared without your say-so.
11 areas of focus
Communication & conflict, Intimacy & sex, Crossroads: stay, leave, divorce, begin again, Betrayal, safety & healing, Self & mental health, Growth, voice & boundaries, Family & parenting, Identity, culture & power, Multiple relationships, Business partners and Connection & fun.
Communication & conflict
Communication, Conflict resolution: stop fighting, have more fun, Moving from me vs. you to us vs. the problem, Decreasing defensiveness, Getting your partner to open up, Feeling seen, heard & appreciated and Dealing with differences and more.
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Intimacy & sex
Better sex, Deeper intimacy & connection, Lesbian bed death, Moving back into the same bedroom, No longer roommates and Tantra & sacred sexuality.
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Crossroads: stay, leave, divorce, begin again
Deciding whether to stay or leave, Knowing when to leave, Saving your marriage, Navigating divorce & separation, Divorce mediation & legal guidance and Ready for a new relationship.
6 kinds →
Betrayal, safety & healing
Healing after affairs, betrayal & hurt, Feeling safe in your relationship and Managing trauma & navigating triggers.
3 kinds →
Self & mental health
Improving mental health, Helping with burnout, Managing insecurity and Attachment: anxious, avoidant & insecure attachment.
4 kinds →
Growth, voice & boundaries
Relationship with self, Setting boundaries, Self-advocacy, assertive messaging & using your voice, Breaking patterns and Leadership in love & life.
5 kinds →
Family & parenting
Parenting & navigating multiple roles, Parent & child relationships, Co-parenting, Stepfamilies & nontraditional family systems and Family of origin.
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Identity, culture & power
LGBTQ+ relationships & families, Transgender & nonbinary relationships, Queer relationships, Interracial relationship dynamics, Neurodiversity in relationships, Power & privilege dynamics and Navigating patriarchy and more.
8 kinds →
Multiple relationships
Polyamory & navigating multiple relationships, Ethical non-monogamy & opening up and Working with jealousy.
3 kinds →
Business partners
Improving your relationship with a business partner and Couples in business together.
2 kinds →
Connection & fun
Playful date night, Busy seasons & low energy: keeping your relationship a priority, From fine to extraordinary, Reconnecting & becoming friends again, A new perspective on love languages, Integrating spirituality and Traveling together and more.
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What do you want to work on?
Couples
For partners who want to talk better, fight less, feel close again and grow from fine to extraordinary.
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Parent & child
Strengthening the bond between parents and kids — toddlers, teens and adult children alike.
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Business partners
The partnership behind the business — co-founders, partners and couples who work together.
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Relationship with self
Every relationship starts here: worth, boundaries, attachment and the patterns you're ready to change.
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Polyamory
Affirming, practical support for loving more than one person well.
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Ethical non-monogamy (ENM)
Opening up with honesty, consent and care — or deciding together that it isn't for you.
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Lesbian relationships
Affirming support for women who love women — from communication to keeping desire alive.
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Transgender relationships
For trans and nonbinary people and their partners, through every stage of identity and transition.
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Queer relationships
Relationships without a script — designed on your own terms, with pros who get it.
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LGBTQ+ relationships & families
Affirming care for LGBTQ+ couples, parents, kids and chosen family.
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Family of origin
How the family you grew up in shows up in the relationships you have now — and how to choose differently.
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Friendships & platonic relationships
The friendships that hold us up — making them, keeping them, repairing them and sometimes letting them go.
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Who we help
Wherever you’re starting from.
Couples
to communicate better, fight less, feel closer and go from fine to extraordinary — together
Individuals
to understand their patterns, set boundaries and build a better relationship with themselves — with or without a partner in the room
Parents
to stay a team while raising kids and to strengthen the parent-child relationship at any age
Co-parents & stepfamilies
calmer co-parenting and a blended or nontraditional family that works for everyone
LGBTQ+ couples & families
affirming relationship pros who understand queer, trans and LGBTQ+ relationships without needing to be taught
Polyamorous & ENM folks
poly- and ENM-affirming support for agreements, jealousy and multiple relationships
Business partners & co-founders
a healthier working relationship — or a fair, kind ending — with a co-founder or partner
People navigating divorce
clarity, a respectful separation, mediation or legal help, and a co-parenting plan
People healing after betrayal
a licensed clinician to help them recover from an affair, broken trust or deep hurt — together or alone
People who don't feel safe in their relationship
confidential, licensed individual support and safety resources — not couples counseling
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- No miracle promises. This site is educational and is not medical advice. Relationship pros may not promise outcomes or cures.
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Questions
Frequently asked questions
What is Relationships.plus?
Relationships.plus is an inclusive guide and directory that connects you with relationship pros — therapists, coaches, mediators and more — who focus on exactly what you're working on. It covers couples, families, business partners, friendships, polyamory and ENM, LGBTQ+ relationships and your relationship with yourself.
Do both of us have to join for this to help?
No — one person can start. Many people begin on their own, working on their own patterns, voice and boundaries, and a partner may join later or not at all.
What's the difference between a therapist, a coach and a lawyer?
Only licensed clinicians (such as an LMFT, psychologist, licensed counselor or clinical social worker) provide therapy and treat mental-health concerns. Coaches and educators help with skills, goals and growth but do not diagnose or treat, divorce lawyers give legal advice, and mediators help both people reach agreements; Relationships.plus itself provides none of these services.
Is this site affirming of every kind of relationship?
Yes. Monogamous, polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous relationships, LGBTQ+, queer, trans and nonbinary people, interracial, neurodiverse and blended families are all welcome, and you can look for pros who specifically affirm your relationship.
What if I don't feel safe with my partner?
Abuse and coercive control are not communication problems, and couples therapy is generally not recommended when one partner is unsafe. Please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (or text START to 88788), call or text 988 if you're in crisis, and call 911 in an emergency; a licensed individual therapist can also help you plan safely.
Can a relationship survive an affair?
Many couples do rebuild after betrayal, but there is no guarantee and every situation is different. A licensed couples therapist trained in affair recovery can help you both decide whether and how to repair — or how to part with care.
How do I know if it's time to leave?
No website or professional can decide that for you, but a discernment counselor or therapist can help you get clear on what you want, what's possible and what's safe. If you're afraid of your partner, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline before making plans to leave.
I'm a therapist or coach — how do I receive referrals?
Join at relationships.plus/join and choose Listed (free profile, 1 niche, no ZIP referrals) or a ZIP plan — 1 category for $2.99/month, 3 categories for $4.99/month or 10 categories for $9.99/month — then enter your ZIP code and pick the categories you want referrals in. ZIP referrals are shared with other relationship pros who hold the same ZIP, and every plan includes your own CRM back office. Niches involving mental health, trauma, betrayal or safety are reserved for licensed clinicians; coaches can list in every other niche.
Is Relationships.plus therapy or an emergency service?
No. Relationships.plus is educational and a directory — it is not therapy, legal advice or a crisis service. If you are in crisis, call or text 988, and call 911 in an emergency.